If you’ve read my Alpha Mindset guide (hopefully you have by now), you know that I’m an advocate of making moves and going after the girls you want without hesitation. This means that generally, I don’t even bother trying to pick up on a bunch of signs letting me know if the girl is interested or not. I simply go after what I want and if it works, great.. if it doesn’t, life goes on, it won’t phase me.

That being said, one of the most common questions I get is.. “how can I tell if she likes me?”. I realize that there are situations where either..

a) You really care about the girl you’re interested in and want to make sure you make your move at a point when you know for sure she’s attracted too to reduce your chance of rejection.

b) You realize that rejection will help you grow stronger but you don’t yet have the confidence to take a blow to your ego.

And so I present to you 5 great ways to tell if she’s interested before making your move..

5She Looks Down and Smiles When Talking to You

I briefly touched in eye accessing ques in a previous lesson. When a girl looks up, it generally means that she’s trying to visualize something and when she looks down, it generally means that she has an emotional attachment to whatever she’s thinking about.

Looking down is also a sign of submission so when you’re talking to a girl and she looks down and smiles at any point during the conversation, that’s a sign that she has feelings for you (or at least attraction).

4She Twirls Her Hair While Engaged in a Conversation with You

A lot of guys read too much into this. It’s a great signal to get providing the conversation is going well and you have her full attention. If the rest of her body language indicates otherwise though, she may just be playing with her hair and stimulating her scalp out of boredom. You’ll need to be the judge of whether or not the other signals she’s giving off are positive or not.

3She Scratches the Top of her Wrist when She’s near You

I learned this one from a guy that calls himself “Mystery” and found it to be pretty accurate. Mystery makes the claim that this signal has been hardwired into a woman’s DNA since “Ape days” and by scratching the top of her wrist, she’s indicating that she wants to be groomed. I’m not going to get into a discussion here on Evolution but this is definitely a signal to watch for.

2She Gives You “Shit Tests”

When a girl gives you a test, it may seem like she’s just being a hater and picking on you but you need to understand that she’s just putting you under a bit of pressure to evaluate how you respond. I’ll be putting together and entire lesson just on this topic so I won’t go into too much detail here.

1She Expresses a Personal Interest in the Details of your Life

This guys beyond just general conversation. If the girl is asking you things about your mom, your pets etc.. you know, personal questions about your background, that’s a pretty clear sign that she’s interested. She’s gathering information for her little diary haha

So I’ll leave you guys with that. Obviously there are other signs to watch out for but I’ll cover the other ones in upcoming lessons. As I’ve mentioned before, I’ve learned the majority of this information from the guide on Hit that up if you haven’t already because it’s awesome.


  1. Thanks for all the work you put into this stuff man, it’s really helping me out.

  2. I read that program you suggested. So sick!
    Sort of feel like I can pick peoples body language apart now, VERY helpful with women and running game.


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